I understand your thread but what I was trying to figure out in my other posts is how you should then approach dating to live the best life ?
Do you abstain and basically monkmaxx /stare into the void or wtv until you lose these desires and accept how meaningless the world is ?
Do you let yourself carried by these emotions going from relationship to relationship and rasing kids bc at the end of the day even tho it's pointless its still fun and arguably required to be fulfilled and escaping your nature is not a easy task of even possible
Or then ofc there is the ltr with a woman (preferably virgin) who you form a strong bond beyond simply lust
option one is to monkmaxx and rot
you accept that everything is meaningless, stop chasing illusions, and rot in silence and have no relationships, no kids, no drama just you, the void, and the cold truth
well the pros includes stuff like no suffering, no delusion, no biological trap. u win by not playing but ye loneliness is real. desires don't disappear just because you know they're fake cuz you're still human fighting your biology is exhausting but ye it's pure, its honest but it's hard as fuck.
cioran and zapffe would approve
option two is to fuck and breed
u know love is fake, but you say "fuck it" and chase pleasure anyway fuck hot bitches, have mogger kids, enjoy the chemicals while they last
well it's fun, it's distracting cuz you get to experience the highs but you are still a puppet.
still a genetic delivery mechanism, still dragging souls into a burning house. it's cope fucking delicious cope. but cope nonetheless
the trad ltr is bluepilled cope. you convince yourself that a "strong bond beyond lust" exists (which you would not if u read the thread), that a virgin trad wife will give you meaning but we've already proven that love is a chemical lie, that bonds are conditional but it feels meaningful it's socially acceptable and you might have some good moments but at the end of the day i's a lie. she'll leave when you become obsolete. the "bond" will fade you'll be trapped by a mortgage and kids you resent its the most dangerous cope because it feels real.
there is no "best life" btw schopenhauer said life oscillates between pain and boredom and again cioran said we're just dying animals screaming into the void and zapffe said consciousness was a mistake
rhe only "win" is acceptance you accept that nothing matters, you accept that love is fake, you accept that pleasure is temporary, you accept that reproduction is a trap, and then you choose how to spend your remaining time.
but stop pretending any of it means something cuz it doesn't. you're still going to die alone. the void is still waiting.
my advice is to do whatever doesn't make you want to blow your brains out but do it with your eyes open. know it's cope, know it's fake. and when it all falls apart, don't cry because you knew the truth from the beginning.
That's the best life.
I'd suggest reading the whole thread properly
